Many people “receive” God’s love without wanting to accept it with all that it entails. They want God’s blessings without having to be responsible on their part. It is the same as a woman receiving an engagement ring from a man and thanking him for the pretty ring and then going out on a date with someone else the very next day. To accept an engagement ring is to agree to all that it entails and to decide to be responsible to keep our part of the bargain. In this case, we would say covenant. To accept God’s love is to agree to all that it entails which means that in response to His immense love for us and His wanting the best for us (Jeremiah 29:11), we cannot help but love Him back. With all our hearts, minds and souls (Matthew 22:37). That means a decision to trust and obey (submit to, surrender to) God in all these areas of our lives: our minds which denotes our logical and intellectual human thinking; our hearts which represents our emotions; and our souls which represent our own strengths and desires.
To love God is to obey His principles (John 14:15, 21). To obey is to submit to, to surrender to; which means that we must surrender all of ourselves to the Lord. This might sound daunting to some as they do not know that they can trust God to direct their lives. What if God does something bad with it? This is when we need to realize how much God loves us. No good parent wants horrible things for his/her child. We need to realize that God wants the best for us. (Jeremiah 29:11). We need to realize that He is good (Psalm 31:19). And because He is good and wants the best for us, we can trust Him with all areas of our lives. We can surrender ourselves over to Him in obedience to His principles. Because He is good.
The first commandment to love our God is not one built on fear or a threat. It is the heart’s cry of an all powerful God who loves us so much that He longs for those who accept His love to also reciprocate in kind. To not only receive His love but to accept it with all that it entails in every area of their lives because He wants to protect them and help them realize the future and purpose that He has for them; and to love Him back because He loved us first. How can we not love someone back if we know how much they love us? God decided to love us; He made a commitment to love us. I am sure, in my opinion, that it is not a butterfly in the stomach lovey type of feeling that God feels in His love towards us because we as the human race are not very lovable. All we need to do is look at our selfishness throughout history. Yet, He chose to love us. Commiting to us through a covenant He chose to make with us.
People who do not understand the depth of His love will keep rejecting Him; by way of insisting on doing things their own way and using excuses to justify it. Unfortunately, they will never come into the fulness of their calling and purpose in the Lord if they constantly insist on doing things their own way and will not submit themselves to His principles. In fact, if they keep insisting on rejecting God’s love, they will end up on the path of destruction in one way or another, in one area of their life or another because the bible says that the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23).
“Trust the Lord with ALL your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in ALL your ways acknowledge (submit to; obey) Him and He will make STRAIGHT your paths.” ~ Proverbs 3:5-6